You are never truly prepared for your first date as an escort until it ends and you start making the arrangements for a second date. Still, there are some aspects you should take into consideration before meeting your first client in person. Where will you meet and how will you get to and from there?
When it comes to location, you only have two options, so choose carefully, depending on the situation: either incall or outcall. If you're much more comfortable in your home than anywhere else, then feel free to host your appointments there, but make sure it's clean and tidy first. And pay particular attention to your bathroom! If, on the other hand, you don't want to disclose your personal address, go for an outcall - either a hotel of your choice, or your client's residence. Bear in mind though, that for any outcall activity you will need transportation, which can imply anything from a car ride to a plane ticket. If you're driving your own car, ask about the parking. If you're flying to your client, make sure they pay for your plane ticket. What form of payment will you accept?
And while we're on the subject of money, how do you plan to receive your donations - in cash only or do you accept personal checks too? Have you set up your escort business as a legal entity in your state? If not, you should keep records of your income that you'll need to declare with your taxes at the end of the year. Will you use your real identity?
And by identity I don't mean just your real name, I'm referring to your personality as well. It's quite easy to say you're someone else, but it's harder to act like that too, so before you go on your first date, decide on a few things: what's your name, what's your story, what sets you apart from the rest of the ladies out there? And once you've answered these questions, stick to the answers! Who's got your back?
You need to have a trustworthy person who knows where you are at all times and can come there, if ever needed. Good luck and have a good time!
Kendra
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